My dearest brother,
You're no longer here to share the bond we had,
a bond of love and care.
I miss you so much, and my tears keep flowing. Since you left, life has never been the same. I  remember
all the special times we had. I remember our laughter, even when we bicker, sober moments and of cause our gists
I can’t believe i am writing about you in past tense.
I remember when we were still young, we argued alot yet find a way to agree. You were my brother and my best friend.
I remember the first time you took daddy's car you were so young and was only in your second year in secondary school, I distracted dad,my heart was pounding until  you got back with the car. That was how daddy got to know you could drive and he was so proud of you. I remain your favourite sibling till death. I remember our countless road trips, (which i will definitely miss) it was always fun. I was your personal chauffeur whenever you came to Nigeria. 
To know you is to love you. I lost the one whom I shared all my dreams and secrets with. It’s taking a long while for me to recover. You personality captivated many you were polite and selfless. You easily pull people to your corner which makes many to love you. 
I know there is a missing piece in my puzzle and that is you my brother. 
I miss having my favorite support system and partner in creativity. 
 Aboyefusi, this was not part of our plan knowing that  i am an emotional person yet you left me. I thought we would go on a vacation together as promised Now I’ve lost zeal for anything because the one who made life interesting is no more. 
I miss you tremendously. You always made me feel that I can overcome anything, I remember when you assigned that big project for me to handle, you've been my inspiration How can I deal with this grief? You paved way for me here just few months ago.  you gave me a soft landing, now you are no more. 
Our last conversation was at the hospital, you told me not to worry that everything will be okay.
The pain of your death is excruciating.
You were a loving son, a supportive brother, a loyal husband, a good father, and an amazing friend.
You  left us a part of you that neither time nor even your death can never take away. Rest on my brother and best friend till we meet to part no more  
Opeoluwa joda-oyefusi (sister)